Thanks for the message :). I grew up in Ridge (it's out in Suffolk) and moved here last summer.

Oh ok. I was thinking oh boy. Did I say something wrong? So I was analysing my past comments to you.lol. Anyway, I'm good. Just working and taking care of the kids. Did some shopping on my lunch break today. I'm so excited. I can finally buy the clothes I want to. After I had my son a year ago I was 199 lbs. Now I weight 158. The pics on my page with me and my husband were taken a few days after I had my son. So i have something to be proud of now. So are you a member of any gyms? I've been tinking about joining one but don't know if I can commit to it and don't want to waste my money.

Hmm... I'm not sure which events I want to atend. I thought about the Sundress and tie one. Are you going to any? Have you been to any yet? I haven't and I've been a part of this website since the summer time. Let me know what events you are thinking about attending amd I'lltry to attend also.

I forgot to ask you, you said you don't do the 9 to 5. So what do you do exactly?

Hey. I really hope I didn't offend you in any way.

Hey. Yeah that does sound like a good idea. Going with a bunch of couples.Keep us in mind the next time you guys decide to do something like that. Which cruise was your husband's cousin talking about? Do you know? We're going on Carnival. Yeah, I actually wanted to write a book but i can never follow through with one Idea. I end of stopping and starting a whole new idea. I'm joining black expressions. it's the website with all african american Authors. Have you ever heard of it? Yeah, it's good to be a geek sometimes. He's a nice guy though. I told him that your husband is a Giants fan and he was all over it! lol. He's like well maybe we can get together soon! He thought bowling would be a good first meeting place. I met a girl once. It went ok but it was hard because we didn't have much in common so i'm always nervouse about this. However, i think we have quite a few things in common so maybe this will be better.lol.

Well we are Pentacostal. I have been raised that way. We go to church every sunday. However, we are nowhere near perfect nor are we looking for that in someone we hang out with.

I just started drinking win. My husband brings me new kinds to try every now and then. It took me a while because I am not a big drinker at all! But i like it so far. Plus i can't really hold my liquor.lol. One drink and I'm not drunk but feeling nice! So I have to keep it under control. Anyway, I'm excited about talking more to you! Anyone who talks as much as me is my type of girl!. You want to exchange numbers?

Oh, I'm curious. This is a very personal question i guess. But you said you have two kids seperately. Do you guys want more?

Oh so we're the same age. That's always good. I hope you have something nice planned for your hubby for his birthday. Yeah we're going on a cruise with about 35 people. Mostly family. We try to do something with our family once a year. Sometimes we do the poconos. Shamar and I went to see Why did I get married and I was saying it would be good to have some married friends who we could eventually do something like go on a trip with.

I seriously need to get some new clotheds. I like shopping but again, since I had my kids I have fallen off and of course I want to keep looking good for the hubby. I'm not much of a shoe person I have to say. I want to be. You know how there is something you don't like but wish you did? So I try to go shoe shopping more now especially with the trip coming up.

Shamar likes bowling. that is his thing that I kind of adapted too. He also is a HUGE football fan. Giants all the way! How about your husband? Shamar comes off as sort of a geek when you first meet him. He's smart... but not much of a geek. He's cool.

Are you into reading at all? I love to read. i know it sounds corny but i love it.

Also, what is your nationality? Your last name is Serrano? It just sounds different.

Oh and yes I have Facebook. I'm under Erin Crandle on there. Request me!

Also, are you guys into wine? Do you have a religion?

Hey. Oh ok. You guys are newly weds like us. We will be celebrating our 3rd year of marriage July 2oth. Shamar (my husband) works for Bristol Myers Squibb as a Web Designer. I work in accounting for a place called Easter Seals. It's a pretty popular organization. We like movies, going out to dinner, Bowling, Site seeing. We are also into vacations. We're going on a cruise in August to the western Carribean. I'm excited! Still have some weight to lose though which sucks. We have 2 boys 4 yrs and 1 yr old. So we are pretty new to the parenting thing i guess you could say. Are you into shopping? I need someone to help me out with style every now and again.lol. Also, is your husband looking to expand his friends circle? Men really don't admit that much I guess but my husband has been "longing" for some new friends. That way, if he wants to get away from me and the kids, he has someone to go out with.

Do you have many frriends? I don't really have any. Just my two sisters and family members who I go out with from time to time.

Anyway, I'm looking forward to speaking more. when you get the chance write back. Also, if I can ask your age? I kn ow it's touchy. I am 27 and my husband is 31.